“Go back to your books, to your armchair. Plant your trees, watch them grow. If more people valued home above gold, this world would be a merrier place.”

— Thorin Oakenshield

Latest Posts


  • Just Be January

    It’s good for you. I’m happy to see that more people are renouncing the hustle and bustle culture and trying to be present and enjoy their lives offline. With every new year comes the pressure of “new year, new me”,… Continue reading

    Just Be January
  • 2026 Ins & Outs

    By the grace and mercy of God, I pray we all have a fantastic 2026! ✨ 2026 INS ✨ 🚫 2026 OUTS 🚫 2026 isn’t about doing more. It’s about feeling safer inside my own body, mind and life Xoxo,… Continue reading

    2026 Ins & Outs
  • Soft Does Not Mean Available

    I used to think being soft meant being endlessly accessible. Answering every call, holding space for everyone else’s emotions and explaining myself until I was empty. I strongly advise against all of the above. Softness is not the absence of… Continue reading

    Soft Does Not Mean Available
  • I’m No Longer Available For Chaos

    . Where healing begins and old patterns end Protecting My Peace and Boundaries There comes a moment where your body whispers what your mind has been avoiding: you can’t keep living in a state of emotional overwhelm. My mind has… Continue reading

  • Winter Whisperings

    5 Ways I Nest, Rest & Slow-down In The Cold Hi everyone and welcome to Soft Embers. Even though it’s not official yet, winter is here. The days are short and the nights are long. The chill in the air… Continue reading

  • Grief, Isolation & Leaning on God

    I miss my daughter so much💔 The day of her memorial. That day broke me💔 At the moment of writing this, I am consumed with grief and I feel like I’m drowning. Because of this grief, anxiety coupled with insomnia… Continue reading

    Grief, Isolation & Leaning on God
  • Stop Telling People Your Business🤫

    It’s not everyone’s business to know your business.I wouldn’t say I was an over-sharer but I will say that I shared too much, especially when vulnerable. I had to learn how to stop doing so when I started to realize… Continue reading

  • The Perfect Bedding ft Crown Goose

    Hey friends, Today, I’m giving you a sneak peek into our bedroom. The perfect night’s sleep involves the perfect bedding. This is where today’s post comes in handy for you my dear reader. When the temperature drops, and the nights… Continue reading

    The Perfect Bedding ft Crown Goose
  • Welcome 2025🎊

    And just like that ladies and gentlemen, 2024 has come to an end and what a year it has been. The lows, the highs, and the in-between have taught me one thing. God is and will always be faithful. You… Continue reading

    Welcome 2025🎊
  • Cozy Adult Hobbies: Stress Relievers

    If it’s one thing I love, it’s having a go to hobby or hobbies. A few years ago, I found myself curating an “anxiety basket” filled different activities that I can reach for whenever I felt anxious. To this day,… Continue reading

    Cozy Adult Hobbies: Stress Relievers